This is a quiet space for the parts of you that rarely get a voice.
The tired parts.
The overwhelmed parts.
The doubting, angry, heartbroken, questioning, and quietly brave parts.
Whatever you're carrying, you can say it here.
We’ll read it. We’ll hold it with care. And when you're looking for a response, we’ll offer back what I can in the form of thoughts, questions, and reflections to help you sort through what’s heavy, blurry, or stuck.
No judgment. No pressure. Just people who understand.
Meet Untacked
Anonymous Emotional Support Providers
I’ve spent my life in the horse world. I know how much pressure we carry on horses, in barns, in show rings and in silence.
I created Untacked because I know how hard it can be to admit when something feels off… especially in a world where being tough is expected, and being vulnerable often isn’t allowed.
This isn’t therapy and it’s not performance advice.
It’s a quiet, anonymous space where you can say what’s true for you and, if you choose, receive a thoughtful response in return. One that honors what you're carrying, and gently helps you sort through it.
We won't give quick fixes or empty comfort.
But we will listen. We will reflect. And we will ask the kind of questions that are meant to support—not challenge—your process.
You don’t have to be perfect here.
You don’t even have to be okay.
You just have to be honest and we’ll meet you there.
“I didn’t realize how much I needed to be heard until I finally said something here. No pressure. No fixing. Just someone who met my words with care. That mattered more than I thought it would.”
- Anonymous User
“The horse world doesn’t make space for feelings like this. Untacked gave me a place to be honest without worrying how it would look. That was the first time in a long time I felt safe saying the truth.”
- Anonymous User
“I submitted something I’ve never told anyone. The response I got didn’t try to fix me, it just helped me understand myself. That’s what made all the difference.”
- Anonymous User
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